Is Whats Holding You Back Actually You?
There's never been a better time to pursue freedom.
So many on X are impassioned by this.
Yet starting's only part of the journey;
There's 4 main factors ive seen over 20 yrs, which breed failure. And 4 ways stop them as well.
Fear of Failure:
Fear of failure is the anxiety that one's efforts might not succeed. It is not a glamorous or often acknowledged topic here on X.
Many people I worked with have felt it. Myself included whenever starting something new.
But what does it mean to be honest with ourselves, really? Often its recognizing that our limitations are all self perceived.
But the thing that the 'Gurus' wont tell you - but that I absolutely will;
Is that it is also a question of skillset, and of mindset and of action so powerful and so immense that it propels you so far.
If you want what most people haven't achieved yet.
You must think and act differently than 'most.'
Teachers told me I wouldn't amount to anything. Ha !
Maybe you secretly hold that belief about aspects of yourself too? Perhaps you don't.
Only you know the absolute truth.
Or perhaps late at night you start thinking or worrying...'Am I really actually capable of this?'
Understandable when your 'job' and your dreams are misaligned. Yes. But its even more reason to begin!
And I promise you all from experience. This voice is a part of even the most successful as well.
And yes, I have always been a contrarian.
Yet, a positive and capable thinker as well.
But do i still have doubts and some fears too, just because I coach others does not mean I don't!
But it is when my own mind is controlled again, and i am very strong also in this;
That I realize I was letting my fears hold me back - and that I created a business and thrived. After failed starts - many- and missed objectives.
Success my friends always leaves clues.
But you must kill that voice in your head quickly!
It will only ever hold you right back.
Fear can paralyze potential entrepreneurs, preventing them from taking any action. It can stop many more from pushing through the first year.
To overcome this, reframe failure as a learning opportunity. I swear.
Break down tasks into smaller, manageable steps, and celebrate progress, not just success. Effort is as valuable in its own way.
Surround yourself with supportive people who encourage and guide you through setbacks.
There are coaches like me or many other options.
This is not a promotional post. Its the truth as I see it.
Have felt it and believe with every fibre of my being.
Overwhelm:
Overwhelm occurs when faced with too many choices or tasks, leading to inaction. Understandable if you are trying to do everything on your own.
So I gathered my masterminds around me. And I passed my business interests to others for now.
What a sacrifice yes - well in money.
As its costing me posting on X.
But I do this as nobody did so for me when I was younger. There wasnt an X, or a Coach!
And if i can fortify and inspire others - that's good man. Its the one thing to me worth more than just money as well.
We are surrounded by choices every single day in this life. Yet the choice people settle for is a job.
And the choices we dont make are the worst kind.
People come to me with the pain of regret...
It can cause stress and indecision.
But it can also be easily 'fixed.'
Combat this by prioritizing tasks and setting clear, achievable goals. Make your goals so big they drag you early out of your bed!
Use to-do lists or project management coaching to organize your efforts.
Tackling one task at a time is the 'secret' to maintaining your focus.
Yet how many shall nod in agreement but do the exact opposite? In a misguided effort to 'get more done.'
Lack of Confidence:
In my early days I was known as a specialist.
In motivating and inspiring my 'troops.'
And the biggest supporter you need friends.
Is always the one between your ears first.
Lack of confidence stems from self-doubt and can hinder progress.
It manifests as hesitation and reluctance to take risks.
Build confidence by acquiring knowledge and skills relevant to your goals.
And im on your side already for free.
People pay me who want to take things further.
But there is plenty of knowledge these days out there.
An abundance in fact if you look for it.
But perhaps in some ways we are too spoiled for choice !
But it costs not a thing to decide on your vision...
To seek mentorship or join groups with similar interests to gain encouragement as well.
Celebrate small victories to reinforce your capabilities and boost your self-esteem.
But don't merely talk it or think it - please do it as well !
You will thank yourself later when you succeed.
And you can DM me if you want to talk how.
Comfort Zone:
You saw me tweet much about this two days ago.
But how few really took it to heart?
The comfort zone is a mental space where familiarity reigns, avoiding risks and new experiences.
I see many who tell me 'Your right Mike.'
But its not about who is correct.
It comes down to how far you are willing to step out of what you already know...
Easy to talk about but harder to do.
And your comfort zone is fluffy and comfortable.
Thats the reason some are scared to give up their jobs.
But this only limits growth and innovation.
To overcome this, start by taking small steps outside your comfort zone first.
You can always step back again quite easily.
But you will find that you will rarely want to after you have grown.
Gradually increase challenges to build resilience. Reflect on past successes to motivate and remind yourself of your capabilities.
And if you forget or need help you can message me.
(Though you may be waiting a little while)
Im the person who will push and propel you.
Man, ive done it in mine and others lives.
Lets Go !
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