Its the one thing that actually upsets me. People failing to achieve their goals or their dreams. But I learned in life the hard way that you cant want something even more than somebody else does.
And the best coach on the planet cant actually do the work for you. So although I write articles and testimonials, and like to talk about people I have helped.
The reality is also that I fail. Or more specifically, others fail to take action on what must be done in order to succeed. Lets make sure that today, we keep you with your feet firmly in the success camp. Lets roll.
And the first thing I need to express is that I never fail if people refuse to give on themselves. I am relentless in my pursuit in supporting people. Buts lets talk about the other side of this too.
And lets talk about it honestly. And from an angle that not many do here on X.
Because there are common reasons for failures. Just as their are common traits and actions of success...
In the journey towards achieving greatness, there exists a group of individuals who hover on the edge of achievement, only to sadly fall short and give up.
Now I am very selective with whom I actually work with. A desire to put the work in is exactly what I look for.
But starting out this was not always the case.
So if I had to state simply what is it? A lack of skills or of insight that fails? Not so much as that all can be honed. But maybe hereafter this Article, you can honestly decide for yourself...
I call failures the club of the “almost made its,” people who possessed the talent, the vision, and the potential to reach their goal; but who ultimately did not follow through with the necessary actions to carry it through.
And by the way my doors are never closed or slammed shut either. Because I have also seen people come back and turn things around.
But today's message serves as a poignant reminder, of how close one can get to realizing their dreams, and yet remain unfulfilled due to a lack of persistence, focus, or decisive action.
In my work as a coach and mentor, I have encountered many such individuals. They often start with fervent enthusiasm, setting ambitious goals and making initial strides towards them.
However, as the journey progresses and challenges arise, they waver. But its this that separates the wheat from the chaff.
Despite being tantalizingly close to success, they fall short of crossing the finish line. Their stories are not failures really; they are lessons in what could be if only they had pushed a little harder, remained focused a bit longer, and committed fully to their path.
The Power of Belief and Action
One of the core principles from my The Master Elements model is the importance of belief coupled with action. It is not enough to merely envision success; one must also engage in the concrete actions that bring that vision to life.
I posted about this earlier today in my Feature Post. (the Secret about the Secret) The "almost made its" often struggle with this balance. They have the dream but falter in the follow-through.
Take, for instance, Sarah*, (*=name changed to protect client identity) a talented writer who aspired to publish her first novel. The idea was good. It was a Vampire adventure and was just around the time that Twilight was blowing up.
Sarah had the skills and a compelling story as well as enough uniqueness in there to have (in my opinion) really been able to stand out as well.
She could have easily capitalized on the whole Vamp trend thing.
But she was daunted by the fact that others had 'got there before her.'
And I never see it like that.
If we focus on our individual perspectives and angle, there is a always a scope to succeed.
Sarah would get as far as drafting and even got as far as final edits. But then would stop before she ever hit hit send, paralyzed by fear of rejection or a possible lack of sales.
Despite encouragement and feedback that her work was promising, she never did actually publish that Book.
Her novel remained a hidden gem, not because it wasn’t worthy, but because Sarah didn’t take the final steps to share it with the world.
Overcoming Fear and Building Resilience
Fear is a common thread among the “almost made its.” Fear of failure, fear of judgment, and even fear of success can hold people back. In The Master Elements model, I emphasize the need to face these fears head-on.
Understanding that fear is a natural part of growth is crucial. It signals that you are stepping out of your comfort zone, a necessary step for any significant achievement.
The Role of Consistency and Commitment
Another critical aspect from The Master Elements is the power of consistency and commitment. Success is rarely a straight path; it involves continuous effort, adaptability, and unwavering commitment.
Those who “almost made it” often lose momentum when faced with obstacles, viewing them as insurmountable rather than as part of the journey.
The Importance of Taking Ownership
Ownership is another pillar of success highlighted massively in my Model. Taking full responsibility for one’s journey means acknowledging both the victories and the setbacks as products of one’s own actions. It is about understanding that you have the power to change your circumstances through your choices.
Pushing Through: Turning Potential into Reality
The difference between the “almost made its” and those who achieve their dreams often lies in the willingness to push through the hard times, to remain committed when the initial excitement has waned, and to take decisive actions despite the fear and uncertainty.
The Master Elements model provides a framework for transforming potential into reality by focusing on belief, consistent action, facing fears, and taking ownership.
If you find yourself resonating with the stories of the “almost made its,” it’s essential to recognize that you have the power to change your narrative. Here are some of my practical steps to ensure you push through and achieve your goals:
Set Clear, Actionable Goals: Break down your big dreams into smaller, manageable tasks. Each small step forward builds momentum and brings you closer to your ultimate goal.
Develop a Routine: Consistency is key. Create a daily or weekly routine that includes specific actions towards your goal. This could be writing a certain number of words each day, practicing your craft, or reaching out to new contacts.
Embrace Failure as Feedback: Instead of fearing failure, view it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Each setback provides valuable insights that can guide your future efforts.
Build a Support System: Surround yourself with people who believe in your vision and will hold you accountable. Their encouragement can provide the motivation you need during tough times. I have my Mastermind Team and they hold me accountable as well as keeping me lifted when I stumble. And even Mike Masters does fall.
Visualize Success: Regularly visualize yourself achieving your goals. This mental practice can strengthen your belief in your ability to succeed and keep you focused on your objectives. But remember the next part as well...
Take Immediate Action: Whenever you feel hesitation, take immediate action, no matter how small. This can break the cycle of procrastination and build confidence.
Reflect and Adjust: Regularly reflect on your progress and be willing to adjust your strategies as needed. Flexibility and adaptability are crucial in navigating the path to success.
By embracing these steps and committing to your journey with unwavering determination, you can transform from an “almost made it” to a true success story.
Remember, the key to achieving your dreams lies not just in envisioning them but in taking consistent, purposeful action to make them a reality.
Your potential is limitless; it’s time to push through and claim the success that awaits you. LFG !
Yours,
Michael Masters - The Info Architect
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